"Humans like telling other people to get to work." Humans also tended to do it to each other, and usually with the stupidest reasons why they got to be in charge, and someone else not.

"So are you handing out food because someone asked you, or because you don't have any other idea of what to do?" It was a genuine question, no judgment laced in the words. Some things needed to get done, and someone had to do them. But why you did them often mattered way more.